The #1 Cause Of Failure

last night I was back again at The Phoenician for their awards banquet.  Many trophies were given ouot for various categories.  I introduced the presenters.

During some “down time” while everyone was eating, I reflected on the past two days of this 5 day convention for upper management of this large company.  I thought about an aricle I published back in April of 2008, titled, “The #1 Cause of Failure.”

I decided to re-publish it here this morning.  It’s still true.

The #1 Cause Of Failure

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What is the biggest roadblock to success?  What sabotages jobs or relationships?  What is the number one cause of failure?

In asking blunt questions like these, many answers may arise as to the real cause of failure. Some would answer by saying that a lack of education is the number one cause for failure. Others would emphatically state that the number one cause is a lack of financial resources.   Still others would be convinced that it must be missing out on opportunities.

Actually, hundreds of possible answers to this question exist.  And I would have to agree that the answers above definitely contribute to failure.  But they are not the real culprit.

In fact, in the least common denominator, there is only one basic reason for not succeeding.  It is sad that few recognize it, and fewer still believe it.  But it is still true.

What Is It?

The number one cause for failure in anyone’s life is what is going on inside their head. smile-thoughtsThat is the cause!  It’s not a lack of knowledge, but rather it’s the false knowledge that a person has put into their mind that they continue to accept as true.  It is that false knowledge that sabotages all our efforts.

Negative thoughts are defeating thoughts.  Now I know that there are people who scoff at the whole “positive thinking” idea.  That is their choice.  But their choice does not change what is true.  The Bible has a lot to say about the thoughts we think

Consistent negative thinking in the mind will absolutely bring negatives into a person’s life.  And it doesn’t matter if you call it, “The Law of Attraction,” or The Law of Vibration,” or any number of names.  It is simply the way God designed our brains to work.  That’s why we bring into our lives that which we consistently focus our minds on.

So if we choose to focus on negative thoughts, negative situations, negative possibilities, etc., we will absolutely bring those negatives into our lives.  How few believe this powerful, critical truth!  Our own thoughts are the number one cause of failure in our lives.

Want Proof?

We see proof of it every single day.  Do you know someone who consistently has problems?  What kind of things do they talk about?  What are some of the things that you hear that individual say on a very consistent basis?  I can guarantee you their talk, their outward expression of what’s on the inside, is negative.

What kind of thoughts do you think they harbor and incubate?  Do you think that they consistently think thoughts of prosperity and abundance; thoughts of health; thoughts of having great relationships?  Not hardly.

Do you know people who it seems like things are always going in their favor?  (You know the kind I mean, the ones who seem to get all the good breaks!)  Do you know people who seem to have God’s blessings just flowing to them?  Sure you do, we all do.

What do those people talk about, negatives?  No, they talk about positive things, and they talk about possibilities.  Their talk seems to indicate that they are expecting great things to happen to them.

Wow!  Isn’t that just such a great coincidence?  Not!

It is no coincidence!  It’s how God designed our brains to work.  We all have freewill to choose our own thoughts.

Guess What?

And here’s some really good insight.  Just thinking one positive thought or one negative thought will not bring it into your life.  There is a part of the mind, which is called by a number of different names.  But again, the name is not important.  What is important is understanding how your mind works.

heartThis is the part of the mind where you carry out who you are.  This is where your core beliefs are stored.  This innermost part of your mind is also referred to as your belief system, or, as the Bible refers to it, the heart.

Your life today is the result of what is inside your heart right now.  And if you don’t like what’s outside, and you are tired of the same results, then make the effort to change what’s inside; change your heart, your belief system, your core beliefs.

Make Some Important Mental Changes!

Identify the negative defeating thoughts that are in there, and then make a decision to remove those thoughts, and put in their place thoughts about the positive things that you do desire in your life.

Your own thoughts, the things you have stored up in your heart can be your worst enemy.  Replace negative defeating thoughts with positive thoughts of success and victory.  If you do, you will see the results that you desire in your life.

The Bible says, “As he thinks in his heart, so is he.”

Michael A. Verdicchio
First published, April, 2008

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Christian Dating Service – Review

Christian Cafe

Over the years I have seen many people who want a lasting relationship struggle to meet other Christians. Sometimes after trying over a period of time they get discouraged.  I found a Christian dating service called, ChristianCafe.com

No, I’m not looking to date someone; my wife and I have been on a date for over 38 years now.  But I decided to review this service, compare it to other services, and then share what I found out with you.

I actually found comparisons with both eHarmony and BigChurch right on their site.  I was impressed with the differences.

I thought one of the best parts about ChristianCafe.com was not just their free trial, but the benefits you get from their free trial.  I’ll tell you about that in a minute, but first let me tell you what they say about themselves.

What They Say

The premier Christian singles site. A comfortable relaxing online Cafe where Christian singles connect with one other. Whether you’re looking for a companion, a date, or a soul mate, ChristianCafe.com is the place for you!

By comparison, ChristianCafe.com is a service only for Christian singles. These singles have faith as a priority in their life and are only seeking someone who shares their religious beliefs.

Profiles

ChristianCafe.com dating profiles are centered around a persons faith. For example, there is a short answer question, ‘Describe your Christian faith. Where are you at and what are your goals? What Scripture verses are important to you?’. Likewise, when searching for matches on ChristianCafe.com , one can select from the standard criteria, but also from items such as level of Christian faith, level of church involvement, and denomination. This type of focus is not available on a secular dating site like eHarmony.

The service eHarmony sends matches based on a personality survey filled out when joining the service; eHarmony members can only communicate with (and view the profiles of) those that are sent to them as matches.

You Have Full Control Over The Search

By comparison, ChristianCafe.com allows its members full control in searching for potential matches, providing over over 20 search criteria in helping them find their match. This way singles can search all profiles on ChristianCafe.com and decide themselves whether there could be a connection. members can contact these people right away as the service provides a free 10 day trial that includes the ability to communicate with other members. 

Meet Christian Singles Now

ChristianCafe.com allows singles to get started right away. Christian singles can fill out a profile and start communicating with other Christian singles immediately – and free! (during the free trial period). eHarmony requires filling out an extensive personality profile which could take up to an hour, and then users must wait for new matches to be sent to them. Even then, users have to pay to even see photos of their matches, let alone being able to contact them.

I also found that there testimonials go back to January of 2002, so they have been helping people get together for over 7 years. 

Free Trial

But I still think the best part is the free trial offer. The site says that with a free trial you can profile and browse thousands of profiles of other Christian singles. Their free trial includes a lot, including, posting a profile and communicating with other singles using email, winks or quick messaging.  The free trial includes access to send and read email; have full search capability; view full size photos; and view ‘Who’s Online’ and, communicate with them.

I think this is perhaps their best selling point.  Someone can try it for free and see all that they have to offer and use it and see if it is indeed the service they are looking for.

Check It Out Yourself

If this is a service that you have been looking for, then go to the site and check it out for yourself; just Click Here

If you do decide to use the service, please let us know about it; if you like it or not.  Come back to this post and type a comment below.

And, if you have any comments about Christian dating services, please put them below.  Let us know what you know or have experienced.

Meet Christian Singles!