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This Is How We’ve Always Done It

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Lots of people work hard and refuse to quit and are successful.  But there are others work equally as hard, refuse to quit, and are not successful.

Discover in this short podcast (6:27) what you need in addition to hard work and persistence to be successful.

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Choose Your Friends Wisely

When I was growing up my dad used to say, many times, “Choose your friends wisely.”  I passed on the same advice to my children as well.  But it still holds true for adults as well.

The weekend is here and usually people have a little more time to spend with family and friends.  But whether it’s the weekend, a weekday, or even a lunch hour, we ought to always choose our friends wisely.

Being around positive people inspires us because they give us hope and possibilities and anticipation of good things to come. For them, the glass is not just half full, but rather, “There must be even more water around here someplace!”

And that’s why we like to be around positive people.

On the other hand, it is depressing to be around negative people.  I’m not talking about when you’re trying to help and inspire someone who is lacking hope.  I’m talking about hanging out with negative people who relate one negative defeating story after another.

It is just too depressing.  It certainly doesn’t encourage or inspire you does it?

Choose your friends wisely.  And, try to be an inspiration to other people. Think of the positive impact that you can have on the people you hang out with this weekend.

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Why Does God Let Things Happen?

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I got an email the other day from my friend, Duke Clarke and I wanted to share some of it with you.  This was an email he sent to those in his coaching group.

It was about the question many people ask; “Why is God allowing things to happen?”  This short podcast (4:03 ) answers that question.

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Who Do You See in the Mirror?

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Have you looked at yourself in the mirror today?  Who did you see?

This short podcast (6:34) is about your opinion of yourself, and God’s opinion of you.

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Independence Day – 2010

If you live here in the United States of America, then you know that today we celebrate our Independence Day.

In honor of this day here in my country, I have a video, and some history.  The video captured something no one was expecting.  The history is about Adams and Jefferson, who both died on July 4th, 1826.

On The 50th Anniversary

There were many who played a role  in our independence.  Two of those men were John Adams and Thomas Jefferson. Both died on the 50th anniversary.

Both of these architects of the document that gave birth to this new Nation died, 50 years to the day from the birth of the country they founded.

On July 4, 1826, the celebration of our Nation’s 50th birthday was saddened by the death of our second president, John Adams. It was the eloquent Adams who had so persuasively defended Thomas Jefferson’s DECLARATION OF INDEPENDENCE before the Continental Congress in 1776, ultimately leading to the birth of this new Nation. It may have been the last time Adams and Jefferson agreed on anything.

Thomas Jefferson

Jefferson’s Declaration was born on June 7, 1776 when Virginia delegate Richard Henry Lee laid before the Congress a resolution calling for the 13 colonies to be “free and independent states, absolved of all allegiance to the British crown.” Moderates argued against the historic resolution, pointing out that the middle colonies of New York, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, Maryland, and Delaware were undecided about complete separation of the colonies from crown rule.

By day’s end there was little consensus, but members of the delegation appointed a five-man committee to draft a declaration of independence for consideration at the July 1st meeting.

Why Not Franklin Or Adams?

The task of drafting the declaration should have fallen to elder statesman Benjamin Franklin, but his illness precluded a timely completion of the task. The task then should have fallen to Adams, who argued instead that Jefferson should write it. Jefferson at first attempted to defer to Adams until, in frustration, the Massachusetts delegate grudgingly stated, “You are 10 times the writer I am.” Thus Jefferson prepared the draft with suggestions for revisions coming from both Franklin and Adams.

The finished document was presented to the Second Continental Congress on June 28th. A poor speaker, Jefferson’s written work impressed the Assembly, despite some reservations. The more eloquent Adams vigorously defended the work, which was adopted on July 2nd. That evening Adams wrote his thoughts on the new declaration to his wife, stating in part: “The second day of July 1776 will be the most memorable epoch in the history of America. I am apt to believe it will be celebrated by succeeding generations as the great anniversary festival.”

John Adams

Actually Adams was two days off. Editing of the document continued until it was formally approvedby 12 of the 13 colonies on July 4th. (The New York delegation abstained from the vote, but approved the Declaration five days later.) On August 2nd the 53 delegates present signed the document, and the 3 absent members subsequently added their names. Among the 56 signers were both of the men most responsible for the Declaration’s existence, Adams and Jefferson.

Two Friends Drift Apart

From that point forward the clashes between Adams and Jefferson were widely known. During Adam’s two terms as vice president under George Washington, more than one conflict arose between him and Secretary of State Jefferson. As a Federalist, Adams found his political views quite at odds with the man who would become the leader of the rival Democratic-Republicans.

When Washington left the Presidency the battle for a successor was bitterly fought between Vice President Adams and Secretary Jefferson. Adams defeated Jefferson by a 3 vote margin (71-68 electoral votes), becoming our second president. That bitter campaign was renewed in 1800 when Jefferson defeated Adams to become our third President.

So intense was their rivalry that, on the day of Jefferson’s inauguration Adams was carriage-bound out of the new Capitol City when the new president assumed office. (The recent death of his son in New York provided a convenient excuse not to attend the inauguration of the incoming president.)

The Friendship Rekindled

Jefferson served two terms as President after defeating the incumbent Adams, then retired to his home in Monticello. Meanwhile from his retirement farm in Quincy, Massachusetts Adams began to write long and elaborate letters to his old adversary. A grudging admiration for each other may have developed in their later years. Nonetheless, Adams always proclaimed that, though Jefferson was 7 years younger than himself…

“I will out live Jefferson.”

On his death bed on Independence Day, 1826 John Adams uttered his last words.  They were “Thomas Jefferson survives.”

It is rumored that upon Adam’s death the messenger dispatched to carry the news to Jefferson’s Virginia home actually passed a messenger dispatched from THAT site to Adam’s home, also bearing sad tidings.

Just a few hours earlier Thomas Jefferson had passed away….both architects of the document that gave birth to this new Nation dead, 50 years to the day from the birth of the country they founded.

MAY GOD BLESS THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA!

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Turn The Other Cheek

From the Category, “The Eastern Eye”

[The Bible is an “Eastern” book. It was written many years ago in the “East” which today we refer to as “The Middle East.”  As such, there are many customs and idioms that are not familiar to the “Western” mind.]

Many people are familiar with the expression, “turn the other cheek.”  However, when it comes to understanding what that means, there is a fair amount of confusion.

Jesus Christ taught that whosoever shall smite you on your right cheek, you should turn to him the other cheek also.  Thus we end up with the expression, “turn the other cheek.”

Some say this is a metaphor meaning that if someone does you harm, you just walk away.  Others have a literal point of view and believe that if someone physically hurts you, then you allow them to keep hurting you. Perhaps that’s where the expression, “door mat for Jesus” came about.

What Does Smite Mean?

The Greek word that is translated, “smite” does not necessarily mean to inflict pain or injury.  It can also mean to touch, and it’s important to note that Jesus mentioned the “right cheek.”

Once again, understanding the culture in the lands and times of the Bible opens up the meaning of the scriptures.   Yes, Jesus Christ brought a new message.  But we need to always remember that the words he spoke and the words he employed were known and understood by the people he spoke to.  His message was new, but the words and phrases he used to convey that message were not new.

But to our minds, not being familiar with that culture, many times we misunderstand those words and phrases.  Gaining an understanding of the words and phrases used in that culture helps us to then understand the meaning of what Jesus taught.

A Great Insult

In Bible culture, one of the greatest insults was for someone to touch your cheek with their hand.  This is what Jesus meant when he said if someone were to smite you on your right cheek.  If someone did in fact touch you on the cheek, it would be a very great insult.  It would be one of the most insulting things that someone could do to you.

The message is clear.  Do not retaliate. Do not respond back with an insult.  It may be very humiliating; it may make me look like dirt.  But, I can let someone touch the cheek on the other side, too.

Jesus was surely not saying that if someone smacked you in the face and jarred your teeth loose, that you should then allow them to smack you again on the other side of your face.  That is just ridiculous.

Bless And Curse Not

Jesus said that we should take his yoke upon us, “For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.”  It is certainly not easy nor is it light to let someone break your jaw, and then let them break it again.

But if someone does insult you, then by the grace of God you can “turn the other cheek,” and bless them instead of retaliating against them.  The Bible teaches, “Bless them which persecute you: bless, and curse not.”

Matthew 5:39:
But I say unto you, That ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also.

Matthew 11:28 and 29
Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and you shall find rest unto your souls.

For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.

Romans 12:14
Bless them which persecute you: bless, and curse not.

Mike Verdicchio

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 There are a number of books that you can read to get insight on customs, manners, idioms and meanings from the Eastern culture in which the Bible was written.  The best I know of were written by Bishop K. C. Pillai I have had the pleasure of listening to many recorded teaching by him.

He wrote three books, and they are hard to find, and are usually over priced.  But, if you want to you can check this link to see what Amazon has to offer. Light Through an Eastern Window

Another great resource that I have used for years is a book called, “Manners and Customs of the Bible,” by James Freeman. Mine was printed in 1972 and I know they have newer additions. For the newest edition, just click the link and it will take you to Amazon. The New Manners and Customs of the Bible (Pure Gold Classics)

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Sleep On It

Yesterday I posted Last week’s article in The pep Letter, called, “How To Face Another Day.”  If you’re not a subscriber to the free Pep Letter, then you can see a sample of what you get in your email once a week.

This morning I wanted to post a followup to that article.  It’s called, “Sleep On It,”  and it really presents some great information about our subconcious.

Isn’t amazing the way God created us!

The information in both of these articles is simple and practical.  It can change your life.

Sleep On It

What thoughts do you think before you go to sleep?  Does it really matter?  Actually, what you think about before you drift off into dream land could be very beneficial and profitable to your life.

While your conscious mind takes a much needed break as you sleep, your subconscious mind actually stays very active. Because of this, the thoughts that you think about shortly before you fall asleep are vitally important.

Junk Before Bed?

Many people end their day by watching the news, which is usually negative and often depressing. When they go to sleep after pouring all that junk into their minds, they are basically saying, “Okay subconscious mind, work on all that stuff.”  And then people wonder why they wake up depressed, negative, and with no ambition for the new day ahead?

Your subconscious mind is at work day and night, including throughout your slumber. Maybe you have heard someone say, “I’m going to sleep on it?”  I remember watching a movie and when faced with a problem, the main character said, “I’ll sort it out in the morning.”  Many times after, “sleeping on it,” a person wakes up with a solution, or at least, a new direction in which to proceed.

A Solution

Perhaps you have heard the story about the man who had diligently worked for many, many hours towards a solution to a problem, yet still knew that there was something missing. He went to sleep, still trying to grasp that missing piece. His thoughts before he fell asleep were focused on unearthing the solution.

He said the next morning he suddenly woke up feeling “the greatest excitement.”  In a short amount of time thereafter, Albert Einstein wrote his first draft of a new article – a full thirty pages. It was the start to his theory of relativity.

Time To Get Up

There are a lot of people who wake up right before their alarm goes off. Does that happen to you?  Is it just a habit, or, before falling asleep, do you consciously think about what time you want to get up?  I think it is the latter.

Personally, the only time I use an alarm clock is when I need to get up much earlier than usual.  However, every time I set the alarm clock, it seems like I still wake up before it goes off.  I really believe that is because before falling asleep, I am very aware that I need to get up earlier.  I am very conscious of setting the alarm for a specific time.  And then, the next morning, my subconscious mind steps in, telling me it is 4:30.

Methods

There are some who suggest deliberately putting specific information into your mind before you fall asleep.  Having noted many examples of people going to sleep with a problem or dilemma, and then waking up with a solution, they suggest doing it on purpose, intentionally.

There are many programs that suggest doing your affirmations right before you go to sleep.  Some recommend reviewing your goals at that time. The Bible talks about not going to sleep angry.  Why?  Because our God designed the brain, and He knows that anger, resentment and bitterness is not something you want to give your subconscious to work on while you sleep.

So before you fall asleep, take note of your emotions.  If you are angry, stop for a few minutes and figure out why.  Our emotions are simply indicators of the thoughts in our hearts and minds.  If you need to forgive someone, then do it before you go to sleep and release that anger from your mind.

Don’t Fall Asleep In A Bad Mood

The point is, don’t allow yourself to fall asleep in a doubtful mood, or in a depressed mood, or in an angry mood.  If you fall asleep in a negative mood, you are impeding the work that your subconscious mind could be doing for you while you sleep.  Deal with the cause of the emotions.  Release the anger and replace it with forgiveness.  Release the depressed feeling with anticipation of God’s help in your life.  Release the doubt and replace it with confidence that God has a solution for you.

Once you release the negative emotions and replace them with something you do want to see in your life, then, deliberately give you subconscious mind something to work on.  Whether it is your affirmations, or goals, or something you are working to solve, be specific and deliberate about your thoughts right before you fall asleep.  Your subconscious mind is going to be working all night on something anyway, so why not give it something profitable?

Successful people develop successful habits; it doesn’t just happen automatically.  You can take charge of your life by doing many little, seemingly insignificant things.  However, those “little” things will reap enormously profitable dividends in your life.

So have a sweet, peaceful, and productive sleep!

Michael A. Verdicchio
2010

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How To Face Another Day

Last week’s article in The pep Letter was called, “How To Face Another Day.”  I have received a number of positive responses to that article.  So, I have decided to post it here this morning.

If you’re not a subscriber to the free Pep Letter, then here’s a sample of what you would get once a week.

By the way, I am going to post a followup to this article, tomorrow, here on the blog.  It will be called, “Sleep On It.”  The information in both of these articles gives you some very simple and practical keys to help you live your life to the fullest.

Applying the information in these two articles can be life changing.

How To Face Another Day

Do you wake up every morning ready to take on the world?  Do you jump out of bed enthused and motivated?  Are you genuinely excited at the start of each brand new day?

Most people would answer all three of those questions with a great big emphatic, “No.”  Some people wake up only to realize that nothing in their life has changed and they must now get up and try to face another day.  At best they try to just get through another day.

What’s The Answer?

Some say that the answer is to start each new day with positive thoughts.  But, again, when waking up to the “same old, same old,” it’s difficult to bounce out bed enthusiastic about a new day.  The real secret is what you do before you go to sleep.

At the end of a day your mind is full of many things that happened throughout the day; the pleasant things and the not so pleasant.  And for lots of people the unpleasant outweighs the pleasant.  But before you go to sleep, there are things you can do that will help you greatly in starting your next new day.

This is not a magic formula.  It is simply a way to deal with your own mind.  Countless motivation and self help books will relate similar suggestions.  But it is still up to you to decide what you do with your own mind.  Changes in our lives begin with changes in our own thinking.

Get Rid Of The “Negs”

First, get rid of any and all negative emotions.  Never go to sleep with negative emotions bothering you.  It adversely affects you mentally and physically, and when you wake up, negative emotions will still be present.

Let them go.  As you undress before getting into bed, also remove any anger, bitterness, and resentment you may be feeling.  Toss them to the side; do not take them to bed with you.

If you’re having a problem tossing them off, then wait before you climb into bed.  Sit down and address those emotions.  Make a decision that you are not taking them to bed.  Make a conscious effort to put them aside.

Forgive

Then as you fluff up your pillow (or whatever you do right before you get into bed) forgive anyone who hurt you during the day; genuinely forgive them, hold no grudge or desire for retaliation.  Wipe it all away.  Ask God to forgive you where you fell short during the day and accept His forgiveness.  And, make sure that you forgive yourself, too.

Never go to sleep with condemnation and sin consciousness.  If you do, you will wake up in the morning feeling lousy about yourself.  Ask for God’s forgiveness, knowing that He will forgive you.  Accept His forgiveness and forgive yourself.  Now you are ready to get into your bed.

As you climb into bed and get comfortable, remind yourself of the blessings that God has bestowed on you, personally.  If things in your life are really bad, then start by thanking Him for being alive; for having a bed to sleep in.  If you have to get back to basics, then do it.  Express your gratitude to God for His blessings.

Gratitude For His Love

Take a few moments to think about some of the things that God has done for you in the past.  Remind yourself that His love for you has not changed.  Remind yourself that His power and desire to bless you have not changed either.

As you begin to relax, talk to God and tell Him the desires of your heart.  Ask Him to open doors for you and to bring to you the things that you need.  Ask Him to show you solutions.  Fall asleep with your trust in God to provide all that you need.

Try this out for a week.  You will be amazed at how different your attitude is when you wake up.  And when you do wake up, pick up right where you left off.  Face the new day with trust in God to provide for you today, expectations of Him showing you solutions, and, anticipation of open doors that will bring you the desires of your heart.

God gave us all free will; we decide what we are going to think about. The thoughts we think will determine the direction our lives will proceed.  We can decide the thoughts we think so that we are genuinely excited at the start of each brand new day.

Michael A. Verdicchio
2010

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God, Please Fix It

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Have you ever found yourself in a big mess?

I believe in a miracle working God. Do you?  He has and continues to perform miracles.  But aren’t we supposed to take some responsibility for our own actions.

In this short podcast (3:28 ) discover what you should do when you find yourself in a mess.

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What’s Love Got To Do With It?

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This podcast is not about Tina Turner’s hit song, “What’s Love Got To Do With It?” or the movie about her life with the same name.

This short podcast (4:05) is about God’s love.  Find out how much God really loves you.

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