‘Twas the night before….

The following is something I put on the site, “Enriching Your Life Now,” two years ago.  I thought you might enjoy it.

Can I say, “Christmas?”  Is that going to offend someone?

What about, “Happy Holidays?”  Is that offensive too?

All this political correctness is enough to drive you nuts, if you let it drive you nuts!  I’m not!

Whatever your plans are for this time of year I sincerely hope that you enjoy them!  We really ought to try to enjoy every day and live it to the fullest.

And I also thought you might like to see a whole list of greetings!

The English greetings often begin with saying “Have a…”, written “Wishing you a…” or sometimes end in “…to all!” as a declaration.

Nollaig Shona Duit – Ireland, Gaeilge .. Irish national language greeting for “Happy Christmas”

Happy Holidays – Canada, United States

Buone Feste – Italian

Felices Fiestas – Spanish

Season’s Greetings – Usually refers to upcoming winter holidays, but technically could refer to any season.

Merry Christmas – Australia, United States, The phrase is often immediately followed by and a Happy New Year.

Happy Christmas – United Kingdom

Merry Xmas – Written English (often informal), supposedly referencing the Greek word  for Christ.

Merry Yuletide, Good Yuletide or Happy Yuletide – English, can generally refer to the period of cultural festivities surrounding Yule, Winter solstice, Christmas and the New Year.

Merry Midwinter – English greeting, generally for the period of the winter solstice.

God jul – Danish, Norwegian, Swedish, lit. “Good Yule”

Hyvää joulua – Finnish

Glædelig jul – Danish

Joyous Yule – Usually a Wiccan or Neopagan greeting for the Winter solstice

Joyeux Noël – France, Quebec, Louisiana, Switzerland

Buon Natale – Italy

Frohe Weihnachten/Fröhliche Weihnachten – German for Merry Christmas

Mele Kalikimaka – Hawaiian, is preferred over the traditional American “Merry Christmas” in the U.S. state of Hawaii; made popular worldwide by Bing Crosby and the Andrews Sisters in 1950 in song

Nollaig Shona Duit – Ireland, (Irish Language), lit. “You have a happy Christmas”.

S’Rozhdestvom Kristovym! or, more commonly, simply S’Rozhdestvom! for the informal Christmas greeting, while the traditional religious greeting is Khrystos razhdayetsya! (meaning “Christ is born!”) and the traditional response is Slavite! (meaning “Let us glorify him!”)- Orthodox and Eastern Rite Catholic countries

Feliz Navidad – Spanish, “Happy Nativity”

Happy Kwanzaa – English greeting used before Kwanzaa.

Wesolych Swiat – Polish greeting used before Christmas (literally ‘Happy Christmas’).

Happy Hanukkah or Happy Chanukah – English

Chag Sameach – Hebrew for “Joyous festival”, used for most Jewish festivals.

Milad Majeed – Arabic for “Merry Christmas” as used in Syria and several other countries

Bayraminiz Mübarek Olsun – Turkey

Selamat Hari Raya or Salam Aidilfitri – Malay and Indonesian

Saehae Bok Mani baduseyo – Happy New Year Korean

Linksmu Šv. Kaledu ir Naujuju Metu – Merry Christmas and Happy New Year Lithuanian

Gëzuar Krishtëlindjen dhe Vitin e Ri – Merry Christmas and Happy New Year Albanian

Have a Happy Household Holiday!

Mike

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The Christmas Dilemma

When it comes to getting all uptight about the exact date of Christ’s birth, and what phrase you should or should not use, I don’t let it bother me.  The bigger picture is that Jesus was not only born, but he lived and carried out God’s plan of redemption for all of mankind.

And those who choose to accept Jesus as lord of all men, and believe that God raised him from the dead, shall be saved.

So, do you say, “Merry Christmas,” or, do you say, “Happy Holidays?”  Some people are furious that the word, “Christmas,” is being called politically incorrect.  Others, who are indeed Christians, for a long time have been fine with saying, “Happy Holidays,” instead.  But in the past few years, attacks on this long held holiday have frustrated many, and for some, caused a dilemma.

First of all, there are many people who do believe that Jesus was born December 25th, and that “Christmas” is a celebration of the savior of mankind, Jesus Christ.  For them, it is outrage to have the word, “Christmas” banned.  For years we have even seen shopkeepers, afraid of offending someone, put up “Happy Holiday” signs, instead of, “Merry Christmas” signs.

On the other hand, there are plenty of Christians who do not believe that Jesus was born on December the 25th.  They are aware that the Roman Church, in an effort to convert pagans, incorporated a new feast day at the same time of year that the pagan feast of Saturnalia was held.  The Roman Church introduced a special “mass” for Christ, and called it Christ Mass.

There are a number of scholars who point to a September birth for the Christ child.  There is historical, astronomical, as well as biblical evidence to support that as well.  Many theologians do not believe that Jesus was born in December.

Those Christians who don’t believe that Jesus was born in December have had a bit of a hard time for quite awhile with the word “Christmas.”  They know and understand the origins.  Some are happy to have their own beliefs, simply saying, “Happy Holidays,” during this time of year.

But things have changed in the “politically correct” arena, haven’t they?  Today, if a person doesn’t say, “Merry Christmas,” he must be a pagan, or an unbeliever.  In other words, if you really want to show that you are a Christian, then these days you need to belt it out with pride:  “Merry Christmas!”

But, there are many places that you are not allowed to say, “Merry Christmas.”  Government workers are not allowed.  Many non government workers face the same rules too.  For those who believe in the December 25th birth of Christ it is frustrating.

That’s really quite a dilemma, don’t you think?  If you don’t say, “Christmas,” you are somehow denying Jesus; but there are places that you cannot say it.  And if you don’t believe in the December 25th birth, and you know where “Christmas” came from, to say Happy Holidays makes you sound like an unbeliever.

What is one to do?  It is really quite a dilemma.  On the one hand, there are those who now feel compelled to shout, “Merry Christmas,” from the rooftops, to make a point, and show defiance to the entire politically correct crowd. Others now don’t feel so good about saying, “Happy Holidays,” like they used to.

If someone says, “Happy Holidays,” to me, I respond with the same.  If they say, “Merry Christmas,” I respond with the same.  The Apostle Paul said that he became all things to all men, that he might by all means save some.  For me, I find that is the loving thing to do.

However, there are times where I do draw the line.  There are those who do not recognize that Jesus is the Son of God.  They recognize him as a prophet and teacher, but not the Son of God.  If they tell me that, I will lovingly correct them, and tell them they are absolutely wrong.

Again, when it comes to getting all uptight about the exact date of Christ’s birth, and what phrase you should or should not use, I don’t let it bother me.  I know that the bigger picture is that Jesus was not only born, but he lived and carried out God’s plan of redemption for all of mankind.

And those who choose to accept Jesus as lord of all men, and believe that God raised him from the dead, shall be saved.

Michael Verdicchio
2010

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Pressure

Life with no pressure?  Not hardly.  There will always be pressure of some kind; it is part of life.

How do you deal with pressure?  I have seen some people allow pressure to really stress them out.  They worry, expect the worse, and just mentally tie themselves in knots. Many times their prayers are prayers of desperation, not expectation.

Have you ever been there before?  I have.  It doesn’t work very well, does it?

Then there are those who put all their focus and attention on a solution. They are bound and determined that come hell or high water they will figure it all out by themselves.  Maybe not even conscious about it, they simply God out of the equation.

And there are those who say and think that it is all in “God’s hands” and He just has to take care of it because He promised to supply all that we need.  Those people sit and wait for God to do something while they take no action.

Where Is The Balance?

Yes, it is true that God has promised to supply all that we need.  Yes, He has promised to not only supply what we need, but to supply it in abundance.  But does that mean that we simply do nothing and wait for that supply to just drop out of the sky?  You’re going to get a stiff neck doing that!

Remember when Jesus was teaching and he used the example of birds?  He said that the birds didn’t sow or gather into barns, but instead, they were fed by our heavenly Father.

Now some may say, “See, God takes care of it all; we just need to wait for Him to do it.”

Well, just how does God feed the birds?  Does He open their little beaks each morning and drop a fresh worm down their throat?  No. He does it trough the wonderful food chain that He has provided. But guess what?  It is up to the birds to leave the nest and go out and get their worms.

Jesus Christ then went on to say that we are better than the birds. That’s really quite a statement, isn’t it?  If God provides for the birds then He will certainly provide for us as well.

The balance is first recognizing that God is the One Who gives and provides.  We become absolutely confident in His promises to provide abundance for us as He has promised.  And then, we take whatever action we can, so that we can receive the abundance that he has provided and promised. In other words, we get out of the nest and go get our worms!

I choose to take responsibility for my life by taking responsibility for my actions.  And since God has promised that He will provide, I will pray, look for, and expect to find and receive His gracious provision.  My complete trust is in my God.  How about you?

Mike Verdicchio
2010

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A Forgotten History Lesson

In wishing you a Happy Thanksgiving, I wanted to share with you some forgotten history about the Pilgrims.  For the most part what you are about to read is not taught in our schools.

After reading this, comment on whether or not you think what the Pilgrims experienced is a valuable history lesson or not.

A Valuable History Lesson That We Have Forgotten

Long before Karl Marx was even born, the Pilgrims had discovered first hand, what could easily be identified as socialism.  It failed.

The original contract that the Pilgrims entered into with their merchant-sponsors in London called for everything they produced to go into a common store.  Each member of the community was entitled to one common share.

Specifically, the contract read,   “All such persons as are of this colony, are to have their meat, drink, apparel, and all provisions out of the common stock.” In other words, each person was to put into the common stock all he could, and take out his portion or his share.

All of the land they cleared and the buildings they built belonged to the common community as well. The plan seemed simple enough, right?  It was equal distribution for everyone.  But did it work?

William Bradford, the governor of the colony, saw the results of this first hand and recognized that this form of collectivism was as costly and destructive to the Pilgrims as that first harsh winter, which had taken so many lives. He saw that not only was it not working, but if allowed to continue, it would threaten their very survival.

Change

Changing something for the sake of change is not always the best decision.  Changing to the wrong course usually ends in disaster.  But the right change at the right time can bring tremendously positive results.

William Bradford was a true leader.  He knew there had to be a change.  So, he decided to take bold action.

Putting all things into the common store meant that some people could put less in than others.  And even if you put nothing in the common store, you could still take out your portion from the common store.

Bradford wrote, “For the young men that were most able and fit for labor and service did repine that they should spend their time and strength to work for other men’s wives and children, without any recompense.”

He also wrote that “the strong, or man of parts, had no more in division of victuals and clothes, than he that was weak.” As a result, some of the young and strong refused to work and the total amount of food produced was not adequate.

The results of their first two harvests were far, far from being abundant.  Bradford knew if they were to survive, there must be change.

His Bold Plan

After the poor harvest of 1622, Bradford wrote, “they began to think how they might raise as much corn as they could, and obtain a better crop.” They needed a very radical change to their current economic organization.

Bradford in effect abolished their practice of socialism.  Instead, he gave each household a parcel of land and told them that they could keep what they produced, or trade it away as they saw fit. In other words, he replaced socialism with a free market system that did a lot more than just put an end to the hard times

As a direct result, the harvest of 1623 was much different; they had great abundance.  Bradford wrote,” instead of famine now God gave them plenty and the face of things was changed, to the rejoicing of the hearts of many, for which they blessed God.”  “Any general want or famine hath not been amongst them since to this day.” In fact, in 1624, so much food was produced that the colonists were able to begin exporting corn.

Isn’t it interesting that in a number of places around the world they have been experimenting with socialism for well over a hundred years.  They try to redefine it, fine tune it, and re-invent it.   But the Pilgrims decided early on to eliminate it. Why is this lesson not taught in our schools?

The Pilgrims learned first hand that people could not be expected to do their best work without incentive. What Bradford did was to simply introduce free enterprise with one of the great foundational principles: private property. Every family was assigned its own plot of land to work and permitted to market its own crops and products.

The Results Of Bradford’s Change

Bradford wrote, “This had very good success, for it made all hands industrious, so as much more corn was planted than otherwise would have been.”  “In no time, the Pilgrims found they had more food than they could eat themselves.”

This change that Bradford instituted was instrumental in the great prosperity of America that was to follow.  It wasn’t long before they set up trading posts and exchanged goods with the Indians. They were no longer just trying to survive.  They were beginning to thrive.

Their profits allowed them to pay off their debts to the merchants in London. That fact had huge repercussions.  Their success and prosperity attracted more Europeans and began what came to be known as the “The Great Puritan Migration.”

Other Colonies

The same scenario happened in other colonies as well.  Many early groups of colonists set up socialist states, all with the same terrible results. What is striking is that the majority of the work was being done by only one-fifth of the people.  The others, for various reasons, chose to not work but expected to be fed.  In the winter of 1609-10, called “The Starving Time,” the population fell from five-hundred to sixty.

But Jamestown changed into a free market area and the results were just as dramatic as the results at Plymouth. In 1614, Colony Secretary Ralph Hamor wrote that after they changed from the socialistic plan to free enterprise, there was, “plenty of food, which every man by his own industry may easily and doth procure.”

He went on to say something that is almost unbelievable.  He said in comparison to the two systems, that “we reaped not so much corn from the labors of thirty men as three men have done for themselves now.”

Most everyone knows the traditional “Thanksgiving Story.” For the Pilgrims at Plymouth, it was an extremely difficult first year.  Yet, very few have ever heard about what followed after that first year.  I believe it is something we all need to remember, and, we ought to teach it to our children.

That’s why I shared what happened afterwards first.  And now here is a short re-cap of the traditional “Thanksgiving Story.”  Who knows, maybe there are some details that you may not know.

The Journey To The New World

On August 1, 1620, the Mayflower set sail for the new world. A total of 102 passengers were aboard, including forty Pilgrims led by William Bradford. It was during this long journey that Bradford set up an agreement that established just and equal laws for all members of the new community, irrespective of their religious beliefs.

This agreement is called the Mayflower Compact. Where did the ideas expressed in this agreement come from? They came from the Bible.  The Pilgrims were a people who deeply respected the Scriptures.

After the long three month journey to the New World, they were not greeted by friends, a nice hotel and delicious meals.  The New World was indeed “new.” Bradford described it as “a cold, barren, desolate wilderness.”

The First Winter

During the first winter, half the Pilgrims, including Bradford’s own wife, died of starvation, sickness, or exposure.  When the long cold winter was over, the Pilgrims who survived were a long way from prospering.

Some Indians taught them how to plant corn, fish for cod and skin beavers for coats. The Indians were helpful. The Pilgrims were grateful.

What is referred to as “The First Thanksgiving” were these devout Pilgrims expressing their gratitude to God in surviving the first year.  Later, in 1789, in his first year, as the first president of the United States, George Washington made a proclamation.

George Washington

When you read President Washington’s proclamation the many references to God indicate very clearly his heart as well as the heart of the New Nation.  The New World, some 150 years before, was now a New Nation, the United States of America.

From those who landed on the beach of the New World, to those who fought for freedom in the Revolutionary War, it is clear that God’s blessings have been on this great country.  God’s blessings continue to this very day.  But has our recognition and gratitude to Him faded?

How rare it is today to hear our leaders recognizing the great power and blessings of God on our country.  When you read the proclamation by George Washington it is so very obvious that he recognized and was grateful for God’s help and blessings on this country.

Many other presidents followed the same course of unabashedly giving public thanks to God for His help and protection.  But it seems in the days we live, a casual, “God bless America” is now sufficient.

Nevertheless, each of us can choose to thank God for all He has done in our lives.  We certainly recognize God’s great blessings on Thanksgiving Day.  But we can also remember to give thanks and show our gratitude to our loving God and Father each and every day.

Have A Great Thanksgiving Holiday!

Mike Verdicchio
November 2010

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Sometimes We Need To Chill Out

A man named John received a parrot as a gift.  At first John was delighted.  But his excitement was short lived. The parrot had a bad attitude and a very vulgar vocabulary.  Every word out of the bird’s’ mouth was either rude, obnoxious or very obscene.

John tried and tried to change the bird’s attitude by consistently saying only polite words, playing soft music and anything else he could think of to calm this obnoxious bird.

Nothing seemed to work.  So, John yelled at the parrot thinking that would help. The parrot yelled back. John shook the parrot’s cage but the parrot simply yelled even more obscenities.

Finally, in desperation, John opened the cage, grabbed the bird and put him in the freezer and shut the door.  From inside, for a few minutes, John heard the parrot squawking and cussing.  But then, suddenly there was total quiet.  Not a peep was heard for over a minute.

Fearing that he may have hurt the bird, John quickly opened the door to the freezer.  The parrot calmly stepped out onto John’s outstretched arms and said, “I believe I may have offended you with my crude language.  I owe you an apology.  I’m sincerely sorry for my inappropriate actions.  And, I fully intend to do everything I can to correct my disgusting behavior.”

John was stunned.  He just starred at the parrot, unable to speak.  This was the most remarkable change he had ever witnessed in his life.

Just as he was about to ask the parrot what had made such a dramatic change in his behavior, the bird spoke again, ever so softly, and said, “May I ask what the turkey did?”

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Weekend Love Quotes

After I did Friday’s podcast, I was thinking that it might be kind of cool to put up some “love quotes.”

Do you have a favorite “love” quote?  Share it with the rest of us by typing it  in the comments below.

Love Quotes

Love and you shall be loved.
– Ralph Waldo Emerson

Think lovingly, speak lovingly, act lovingly, and every need shall be supplied.
– James Allen

If you would be loved, love, and be lovable.
– Benjamin Franklin

Jesus said unto him, You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.

This is the first and great commandment.

And the second is like unto it, you shall love your neighbour as yourself.
On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.
– Matthew 22:37-40

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Having Trouble Forgiving Others?

I was watching a movie recently and was reminded of something about forgiveness that many people fail to realize.  I’ll tell you what that is in just a minute.  But first, let me ask you something.

Have you ever had someone hurt you so badly that you thought you would never forgive them for what they did to you?  In your mind, that person did not deserve to be forgiven.  Have you ever felt that if you did forgive them, it would be like letting them off the hook for what they did?

We have all experienced hurt to one degree or another.  And, it seems that the deeper the hurt, the harder it is to forgive.  Some people feel that by not forgiving the one who hurt them, they are actually hurting or even punishing the perpetrator.  Nothing could be farther from the truth.

Why Let Someone Have Power Over You?

The person who chooses to hold on to the anger, hurt and bitterness is the one paying the price.  In fact, holding on to the hurt and not forgiving, actually gives the one who did the hurting power over the one they hurt.  In other words, by not forgiving, you are choosing to continue to give that person power over you.

Very few realize this.  That is why I was surprised to see this in a movie Kathy and I watched on TV recently.  It was called, Diary of a Mad Black Woman.  It was so simply explained to the woman who had been very hurt, that until she forgave, she was allowing the one who hurt her to continue to have power over her.

Carrying the hurt is not only harmful to you mentally, but it is also detrimental to your physical body.  A number of medical studies show a connection between unresolved anger and physical illness.  The holistic approach to patient care acknowledges and addresses the mind-body connection.

The Bible tells us that “a merry heart does good like a medicine, but a broken spirit dries the bones.”  It talks about not going to sleep angry. It also discusses heaviness of the heart and sorrow of the heart in contrast to being glad and merry.

What Is Forgiveness?

Many times people are unwilling to forgive because they feel that in doing so it excuses the hurtful deed.  But forgiving someone does not in any way mean that what they did was not wrong.  Forgiving simply means that you are choosing not to exact punishment for what was done.

Biblically, to forgive means to refrain from exacting, as a payment or service; it means that no payment or service is needed. When someone’s monetary debt is canceled, it doesn’t mean that the person who owed the money was right in not paying their debt. Absolving a debt means that no more payment is due.

A great key in learning to forgive others is to remember that God has forgiven you.   Forgiveness from God means that there is no payment needed for your infraction.  Your wrong doing has been remitted.  Jesus Christ paid the price for you.

Have You Forgiven You?

However, many times people know that God has forgiven them, but they fail to forgive themselves.  In not forgiving themselves, they really aren’t accepting God’s forgiveness.   And, as a result, they end up carrying guilt and condemnation.

Now everyone knows that no one’s perfect. We all make mistakes, right?  Therefore, we all need forgiveness.   And God has lovingly provided this forgiveness through His Son, Jesus Christ who paid the price for all our sins.

Not accepting God’s forgiveness communicates that the price that has already been paid was not enough.  It would be like you owing a thousand dollars and someone paid that debt for you, but you still feeling like you owed the money.  When it comes to God forgiving you, the price has been paid in full.

The Bible talks about being imitators of God as “His dear children.”  Therefore, I can forgive others not because I am supposed to, but because of who I am. I am His child, and He said to imitate His love.  I forgive others because of who I am.  I am His child.  I am loved.  I am forgiven.

Forgiving Others

So, first, forgive others because of who you are, and what God has done for you.   Secondly, when you forgive others, it gives you freedom. Living with anger, bitterness and hurt holds you captive; you are a prisoner!

And consider this.  So many times, those who have hurt you have moved on; they no longer even think about it.  Yet, there you are, being held captive by your own thoughts and emotions.  That is not freedom.

Release your anger, bitterness and hurt.  Choose to hold thoughts of “no payment due.”  Remember, you are not saying that what they did was right; you are simply excusing them from retribution.

And thirdly, remember that the Bible says that we are to forgive others even as we ourselves have been forgiven.  God has never said to you that what you did was so bad that He was not going to forgive you.  I don’t know about you, but I’m very glad about that.

Have You Considered Him?

And here’s one more point to consider.  Jesus Christ was illegally arrested, falsely accused, subjected to a mock trial, savagely beaten and tortured, and, nailed to the cross.

We can only imagine the physical pain he endured.  But what about the pain of being rejected that he endured?  He was the long awaited Messiah.  The religious leaders did not welcome him with open arms.  Instead they challenged him at every turn, and eventually engineered his arrest and execution.

If anyone ever had the right to not forgive it was Jesus.  And yet, in that moment of pain and suffering, hanging there in shame and humiliation, being mocked and reviled by almost everyone, he uttered the words, “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.”

Forgiving others is a choice.  It starts with accepting God’s forgiveness for what you have done, and you in turn forgiving yourself.  Then, you can, and you ought to choose to forgive others.

Michael A. Verdicchio
2010

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Patience And Wisdom

Weekend Chuckle 

There are times in life where we need to exercise both patience and wisdom.  When you find yourself in that kind of a situation, remember the picture below.

Patience And Wisdom

Have a great weekend!

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Editing Your Thoughts

Okay, here I go again.  Not everyone who visits this blog is a subscriber to my free weekly newsletter, called, The Pep Letter.  And because I thought yesterday’s article was worth repeating, here it is.

This article is about editing your thoughts. We edit things we write, but do you think any of your thoughts need editing?  Does it really matter?  What do you think?

Edit Your Thoughts

Typing away on your computer you have no doubt had the spell checker engage when you misspell a word.  That handy red line appears under the word that is identified with an incorrect spelling.  Most of these programs even give you a list of possible correct spellings for that particular word.

I know when I type an article, it is important to me to have all the words spelled correctly.  So I appreciate the spell checker feature.  For me, it is a very helpful tool in editing what I write.

Of course, when it comes to speaking, most of the time we do not have a grammar checker in our brain.  Many of us use incorrect grammar when we talk.  But for the most part, we all seem to get by and understand each other.

But what about editing your thoughts?  We all have thousands of thoughts pop in our heads every single day.  Do we need to edit those? Is that something that needs to concern us?

The answer to that question depends upon whether or not you believe that your thoughts affect your life.  The Bible is very clear about the effect your thoughts have on your life.  Self help and motivational speakers as well as teachers have been talking about it for a very long time.

The Bible says that we ought to guard our heart with all diligence because from it are the issues of life; our life.  It also states that out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.  And of course, the verse that has been referred to for centuries: as one thinks in his own heart, so is he.

Perhaps you have heard a self help or motivational speaker talk about how our thoughts determine our lives.  Maybe you have read something similar in a book.  It has been said by countless people for many, many years that you can change your circumstances by first changing your thoughts.

If all that is true, then I say we do indeed need a “thought checker.”  We need to recognize if something we are thinking about is not productive.  We really do need to edit our thinking.

How do we do that?  It’s really quite simple, but it does take a little effort.  But, the effort is well worth it.

First we need to make a decision to monitor our thoughts.  We need to take note of what we are thinking.  The best place to start is with your thoughts about yourself.

Each and every thought you have about yourself must be monitored and evaluated.  You can decide to either allow that thought to stay, or determine that it needs to go. If it needs to go, then you toss it out of your mind and replace it with something that is profitable and beneficial to your life.

For example, you may be thinking about how you can’t possibly expect to be financially successful.  You may have all kinds of reasons and experiences to back up that kind of thinking.  And so, you accept the thinking that you are one of those persons who just needs to settle.

That is in fact destructive thinking.  When you recognize that kind of thinking, you need to stop right then and there and simply say, “No!”  Refuse to accept that kind of thinking, and throw those thoughts out the window.

Next, replace those thoughts with positive, encouraging thoughts.  Stop allowing your experiences, or the odds, or your present circumstances to dictate how the rest of your life is to be.  As he thinks in his heart, so is he.

The Bible is full of God’s promises of success.  He wants you to be happy and blessed in all that you do.  But He will not get inside of your brain and change your thinking; that is something that you must do.

People in every walk of life who are successful do not have a lousy opinion of themselves.  They do not think that they can’t achieve, rather they think and believe that they can.  They actually see themselves achieving the things that they desire.

It all starts with deciding which thoughts you want to entertain and keep.  Your thoughts, like a rudder on a great ship will set the direction and course for your life.  Change and adjust the rudder by tossing out destructive thoughts, then replace them with productive thoughts.

You can change your life today, one thought at a time.

Michael A. Verdicchio
2010

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October 31

Today there are many who are engaged in activities surrounding Halloween.  But October 31 is also the anniversary of the Reformation, led by Martin Luther.  It is noteworthy that Luther’s study of the Scriptures illuminated his eyes to what was going on in the organized Church in his day and time.

Luther did not intend to “confront the Church,” but rather, wanted to have a scholarly debate concerning a number of practices that he felt were very wrong.

In 1516–17, Johann Tetzel, a Dominican friar and papal commissioner for indulgences, was sent to Germany by the Roman Catholic Church to raise money to rebuild St Peter’s Basilica in Rome. Roman Catholic theology stated that faith alone, whether fiduciary or dogmatic, cannot justify man; and that only such faith as is active in charity and good works (fides caritate formata) can justify man. The benefits of good works could be obtained by donating money to the church.

On 31 October 1517, Martin Luther wrote to Albrecht, Archbishop of Mainz and Magdeburg, protesting the sale of indulgences. He enclosed in his letter a copy of his “Disputation of Martin Luther on the Power and Efficacy of Indulgences,” which came to be known as The 95 Theses. Hans Hillerbrand writes that Luther had no intention of confronting the church, but saw his disputation as a scholarly objection to church practices, and the tone of the writing is accordingly “searching, rather than doctrinaire.”

Hillerbrand writes that there is nevertheless an undercurrent of challenge in several of the theses, particularly in Thesis 86, which asks: “Why does the pope, whose wealth today is greater than the wealth of the richest Crassus, build the basilica of St. Peter with the money of poor believers rather than with his own money?”

Luther objected to a saying attributed to Johann Tetzel that “As soon as the coin in the coffer rings, the soul from purgatory [also attested as ‘into heaven’] springs.” He insisted that, since forgiveness was God’s alone to grant, those who claimed that indulgences absolved buyers from all punishments and granted them salvation were in error. Christians, he said, must not be slacken in following Christ on account of such false assurances.

The sale of indulgences shown in A Question to a Mintmaker, woodcut by Jörg Breu the Elder of Augsburg, circa 1530.

According to Philipp Melanchthon, writing in 1546, Luther “wrote theses on indulgences and posted them on the church of All Saints on 31 October 1517”, an event now seen as sparking the Protestant Reformation. Some scholars have questioned Melanchthon’s account, since he did not move to Wittenberg until a year later and no contemporaneous evidence exists for Luther’s posting of the theses. Others counter that such evidence is unnecessary because it was the custom at Wittenberg university to advertise a disputation by posting theses on the door of All Saints’ Church, also known as “Castle Church”.

The 95 Theses were quickly translated from Latin into German, printed, and widely copied, making the controversy one of the first in history to be aided by the printing press. Within two weeks, copies of the theses had spread throughout Germany; within two months throughout Europe.

Luther’s writings circulated widely, reaching France, England, and Italy as early as 1519. Students thronged to Wittenberg to hear Luther speak. He published a short commentary on Galatians and his Work on the Psalms. This early part of Luther’s career was one of his most creative and productive. Three of his best-known works were published in 1520: To the Christian Nobility of the German Nation, On the Babylonian Captivity of the Church, and On the Freedom of a Christian.

Michael A. Verdicchio
2010

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