Happy Thanksgiving!
I share the view with many others that every day is a day to give thanks to God, and I do.
I have posted some links below of past posts from Thanksgiving. Enjoy, and have a great week!
Uncertain About The Future?
I don’t know about you, but to me, people today seem to have a lot more uncertainty about the future. Some of the words synonymous with uncertainty, are, distrust, mistrust, doubt, skepticism and suspicion. Perhaps you notice this as well.
On the other hand, the opposite of uncertainty is confidence, conviction, and certainty. It means to have assurance, trust and belief. Many people who are uncertain lack hope for the days ahead. Uncertainty breeds fear of what could happen, and always hinders
What If It’s Really True?
Some believe it. Some do not. But what if it’s really true?
You may believe it’s true, but then again on the other hand you may think it’s not true. I have considered, on a number of occasions, what the logical conclusion would be if it’s not true. That scenario is not pleasant because
Veteran’s Day 2012
Today Is Veteran’s Day!
Years ago, I heard the phrase, “Every day is Veterans Day.” That phrase of course means we ought to be grateful every day for our veterans. True. Every morning I wake up in a free country.
Since the days at Valley Forge, brave men and women have served our country. Some paid the ultimate price. Others came home with physical and mental wounds.
I join many, especially this day, the 11th of November, saying, “Thank you!” In addition to links from previous years below, I have a video tribute to our soldiers; pictures, and in the background, Tobby Keith singing,
Where’s The Balance?
It’s Another Podcast!
This short podcast [7:31] answers a question many ask. If you are trying to live your life demonstrating the love of God, what’s the right thing to say if you see something that you think is not right?
Do you say something to someone, or do you say nothing? Find out the proper balance and see why it is so important.
A Wonderful Life
Okay, I know it’s not December and holiday time, but after writing the last article, I started to think about what a great point the movie It’s A Wonderful Life 
Youth Is Wasted On The Wrong People
I doubt anyone under the age of thirty can really relate to this. On the other hand, if you are under thirty, this article may help you understand some of us who are a little older. The title of this article is from
Thank God It’s…
Friday? No, this is not about the popular phrase, “Thank God it’s Friday.” In this short [4:51] podcast you will discover one of the great benefits of being grateful. Do you know what it is?
Enjoy The Podcast!
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Do You Feel Like Giving Up?
There are times in life when almost everyone has thought about giving up. Frustrated and feeling like nothing is working for them, a person can get to the point of saying, “What’s the use in trying anymore?”
Reaching that point in life, most of the time a person chooses one of two courses. If someone is really discouraged, they can choose to accept their “plight in life.” They see their dreams or goals as unattainable. They believe that for them, “This is just the way that it is.”
But others choose a different path. Yes, they too may be discouraged. They may very well be very frustrated and feel like giving up. But, instead, they choose not to give up. They choose to keep trying.
Why Bother?
Life is not without challenges and setbacks no matter who you are. With the current economic situations many of those challenges seem to be magnified. It can be tempting to think, “Why bother trying anymore?”
This is not only true with economic challenges, but with relationships, illness, special projects; it’s true with any number of different things. But no matter what it is you are thinking about “giving up” on, before you do, consider two important questions.
First, why was this important to you in the first place? Whether it is a relationship, a job promotion, a dream of yours, a new business, moving to a new city, etc., why was it important to begin with? Really be honest in answering this question.
Secondly, do you feel like quitting because it is no longer important to you, or, because it hasn’t worked out yet like you expected it to? Here’s an important key in answering this second question: if it no longer important to you, then it really isn’t a big deal to abandon it. But, on the other hand, if you feel sad and remorseful giving up on something, then it may very well still be important to you.
If something is important to you, I don’t believe you ever have to quit. Your goals and your dreams are yours. The desires of your heart are deeply personal and they are very important because they are yours. The Bible states that God will give you the desires of your heart, so He must think they are important as well.
So, if something is still important to you then you can either give up, or, you can refuse to quit. I know that refusing to quit is easier said than done. I’ve been there in my life many times.
Where Is Your Focus, Honestly?
It really takes no more effort to focus on a negative than it does to focus on a positive. So many times when we are ready to give up and quit we are focusing only on the problems. All we see is that we do not have what we desire. That tempts us to complain and blame.
Put your focus back on your goal, back on what you desire. Yes, you need to track your accomplishments, but keep your main focus on your desire.
Dismiss and let go of worry, doubt and fear. The greatest detriment to success is fear of failure. Put your trust in God. His message to you is, “Fear not.” So, when you have those feelings of fear, toss them out and replace them with thoughts of confidence; Say, “I can do this!”
You Need A Plan
Next, write down a plan, any kind of a plan. It doesn’t have to be 10 pages long. As a matter of fact, if you can only write one or two things down that’s fine. That’s your plan for right now.
This is really helpful especially if you feel like you are at the end of your ropes and that you have already tried everything. That doesn’t matter now. You have decided not to quit, so you are now re-grouping. Just write something down. You can add to it later, but you need to start somewhere.
Writing your plan helps to eliminate the worries of how and what and where. Instead of looking at past setbacks you are now focusing on a solution. Here is what I am going to do right now.
Try It Today
For example, you may simply write down, “pray.” That’s fine. Maybe that’s all you can do right now, today. Then tomorrow, you add to your plan, “Evaluate what I have been doing.”
Continue to add things to your plan such as: what you will continue to do, what might need adjusting, what new things you can do, what additional information you need to learn and who can you get help from.
If something is indeed important to you, then don’t quit. Have confidence in God and stay persistent. The learning when you stay on the journey is invaluable, and as many have said, many times more fulfilling than actually achieving the goal or dream.
Finally, refuse to think or utter anything negative about your dream or goal. Always speak positively about it. I will get there. I am making progress. I am moving forward. It doesn’t matter how slow the progress, what matters is that I am moving forward because I refuse to quit.
Mike Verdicchio
2012
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A Cool Morning
Last Sunday, at a business conference, I sat and listened to John Maxwell for around an hour and a half. He was very excited about his new book, as any author would be, of course. But of his seventy some books, he said he believed this one was his most important.
Knowing a little bit about what is in that new book, I mentioned it on my last post. I’ve ordered it. But, last Sunday morning turned out to be a real treat; let me tell you why.
John told us we were the first group he was speaking to about his new book. He told us it was not going to be a “polished” presentation, but he was enthusiastic because he believes the information can, “change people’s lives.”
So, casually but with great conviction, he gave us some highlights, and I wanted to share a few things with you from my notes. While I am a very good “note taker,” and some of this may very well be verbatim, don’t consider these direct quotes.
Some Nuggets
He talked about the “Law of Intentionality” as the foundation of the book. I mentioned that law in my last post when I was talking about growing spiritually. Growth, in any category doesn’t just happen; it is not an automatic process.
Most people want to change their circumstances, but they don’t want to improve themselves, therefore they remain bound.
When you grow and change then things will get better. It starts with self-improvement. He talked about how everyone knows people they’d like to change, but really, the person they need to change is themselves.
The longer you wait to do something that you should do now, the greater the odds you won’t do it.
Most people get up each day and accept their life instead of getting up each day and leading their life.
The Mirror
I really liked when he talked about who and what you see in the mirror. I’ve mentioned that before on this blog a few times. I think it is very important. He said that when you look in the mirror, you must see value, worth and potential. The Creator made you for success, not failure. See yourself greater.
12% – Are You Kidding Me?
When it comes to personal growth, we all have room to grow. He gave a statistic I had not heard before. Researchers say that most people only reach 12% of their potential.
12%? If we are going to tap into that other 88% we need to change how we think. We need to change what we do.
So, those are a few highlights of a very exciting morning with John Maxwell.
Mike Verdicchio
2012
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