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GUESS WHAT HAPPENED TO ME?

You Can’t Always Control What Happens To You, But You Can Control What Happens In You

 

pine 1Sunday, October 19th, shortly after 4pm, Kathy was in the kitchen preparing us an early supper.  Suddenly, it began to rain, a downpour with hail. In an instant, the wind picked up and the power went out.

Then, as we were standing in the kitchen with flashlights in hand, we heard an extremely loud bang that sounded like the loudest thunderclap I’ve ever heard, but it wasn’t thunder. At first we thought lightning hit the house.

We moved from the kitchen into the dining room and with wide eyes saw a

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DID YOU REALLY SAVE SOME MONEY?

When You Spend Less, You Don’t Necessarily Save Any Money

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I found out recently from Verizon because we are no longer under contract, they lowered our monthly bill $15 per line.  That’s $30 a month less than what we were  paying.  Sweet! I just saved some money. Or did I?

When you find something at a price lower than you were expecting or planning to pay anyway, you almost always say, “I just saved some money,” or, “I just saved 20 bucks.”  The truth is

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WHAT ARE YOU AFRAID OF?

Being Afraid Happens To Everyone But You Don’t Have To Live With Fear

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In the summer of 1989, I said, very positively, “I’m not afraid; I’m trusting God.” I had taught many times on not being afraid, had counseled countless people about trusting God and not being afraid. And now it was my turn to face fear.

It’s actually very easy to say, “I’m not afraid,” isn’t it?  It’s easy to just say the words and act “positive.” But just saying, “I’m not afraid,” doesn’t mean you’re not allowing fear to direct your life.

Sure, it’s easy peasy to trust God when everything’s going well.

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WHAT IF THERE WERE NO RULES?

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When I was young, several of us would go to a park or playground and play some football. When we played no one was there to “throw a flag,” to point out an infraction of the rules of football. Instead, there was usually some boisterous arguing.

In the NFL, when a referee sees an infraction, he throws a yellow flag on the field, and the sports broadcaster says, “There’s a flag on the field.”  But can you imagine a football game, or any other sport, where there were no rules? Our playground games had some rules, but no rules?  No standard? That would be utter chaos.

Not just sports, but in

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THROW YOUR BIBLE AWAY?

Your Opinion Of Rich People Might Mean You Don’t Need Your Bible Anymore!

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I’ve spent time with very poor people, very rich people, and everybody in between.  Most of the wealthy people I’ve encountered personally do not fit the general description or common opinions.

How many times do we hear phrases like, “dirty rich people,” filthy rich,” greedy rich,”  etc.?  There are many who think if someone has wealth, they obtained their riches dishonestly, and they are evil, sinful people.  But is that also true of all the wealthy people in the Bible?

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PROVERBS THREE IS LOADED!

What I Saw In Proverbs 3

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I thought it was a good plan since I had not read the whole book of Proverbs in quite awhile.  But reading a chapter a day did not work. It came to an abrupt halt at Chapter 3.

Day One, Chapter One: I enjoyed reading from the KJV, the NIV, and RSV.  My mobile Bible app makes it very easy to read other versions. On day two, I read Chapter Two: very enjoyable. But then, on Day Three, I had to put the brakes on; I had to stop my plan because of what I saw!

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WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?

Gravy is gravy and truth is truth

brooklyn lI remember my first day after moving to Brooklyn, New York asking someone for directions.  They said, “Go three blocks and turn left at the “L” and…” I interrupted, “L Street?”  “No, turn left at the “L.”  “The “L?” I asked, very puzzled.

His irritated response was, “Where are you from?”  No, I wasn’t a native and had no idea what the “L” was.  However, I learned quickly that, “L,” actually meant

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Re-Launching

Confidence And Joy is back online!

Finally, after weeks of repairs, alterations, renovations, remodeling, and implementing a brand new theme, this blog is back online!

light-switchWhat do you think?

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There are still a few minor adjustments going on in the background, but we are off and sailing forward, providing practical Christian living.

It feels good to be back!

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WARNINGS AND PROMISES

What does the Bible really say about money?

coinsAn honest look into any topic in the Scriptures requires one to search out and investigate every scripture pertaining to that topic. Since the scriptures are God’s Word, there can be no contradictions; all verses on the topic need to fit together. Those that seem to be difficult to understand and may appear to be contradictory must be understood in light of the clearer ones and not vice versa.

The problem so many times is that most people do not want to put forth the effort required to examine every verse on a particular topic. When it comes to money, wealth, riches and prosperity, the Bible has a lot to say. There are literally hundreds of verses one should consider.

What Does The Bible Really Say?

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I Can Turn Lemons into Lemonade

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You’ve probably heard the old phrase, “God can turn lemons into lemonade.” It basically means you can trust God for His help during difficult times. Lemons are sour, but lemonade is sweet; God can bring you out of a sour situation into sweet deliverance.

But I must admit, I’ve never really liked that phrase. Not that I don’t believe God can help in lousy situations. He certainly has for me on many occasions. But the analogy for me has always been weak because,