Happy Mother’s Day!

I wanted to wish all the Moms a very Happy Mother’s day!  heart bouquet

The way God set it all up, we all have a Mom!  I told my daughter the other day, “Aren’t you glad we don’t come from eggs?”  She said, “Yeah, that would be awful for a mom to have to sit on an egg until it hatched!”

Some of us still have our Mom around, and I am thankful I get to call my Mom today to wish her a Happy Mother’s Day.  Our kids will be contacting Kathy just as people all over recognize their Moms today.

By The Way, Are You…?

By the way, I think it is very cool to be a Mom.  And, I’ve said this for years; “I love pregnant women!” I always have.  So, if I ever meet you, and you’re pregnant, then I am going to give you a big hug!

Happy Mother’s day!

Mike

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It’s Our Day

heartThe wedding took place in a very small Justice of the Peace office in El Paso, Texas.  It was a Saturday afternoon.  The official performing the ceremony was wearing black slacks and a T-shirt.   We were in our jeans.

I’ve often told young people who are planning their wedding that it doesn’t matter where you get married, who attends the ceremony, or who does the service.

Don’t get me wrong.  Weddings, big and small, with all the things that go with them, and there can be many, are wonderful.  They can be expensive, even smaller ones, but, if that’s what the couple wants, and they can afford it, more power to them.

I have officiated at many, many weddings, in sizes from less than 10 to over 500.  I’ve performed weddings in living rooms, hotel ballrooms, and even on the beach.  All of them, in their own way, have been very special.

Here’s The Point

heartThe point I want to make is that regardless of who performs the wedding ceremony, where the location is, and how many attend, none of that is any guarantee that the marriage will last.  For a marriage to last it is going to take the love and commitment of both the bride and the groom.

On that Saturday afternoon in El Paso, Texas, Kathy and I made a commitment; it was a lifetime commitment.  Four years after we got married, we began to study the Bible.  We have tried to base our marriage on biblical principles ever since.

Love is a choice; you choose to love.  Thankfulness is a choice; you choose to be grateful.  Forgiveness is a choice; you choose to forgive.  I think those three are all very important keys in a successful marriage.

heartToday Is Our Day

Today, our wedding anniversary again falls on a Saturday.  I am filled with memories of the drive in our VW van from Carlsbad, New Mexico (where we lived) to El Paso, Texas. We had supper that night at McDonald’s, and spent the night in a Motel 6. We drove back to Carlsbad the next day as happy newlyweds.

I’m thankful to God for the most wonderful woman I know, a woman full of love, thankfulness and forgiveness.  She is still the girl of my dreams and the love of my life.

And while we don’t have a wedding album of pictures to look at, or a piece of frozen wedding cake in the freezer, or a wedding dress packed away in a box, we have each other!   So, on this, our 39th anniversary, I just wanted to say, “Happy Anniversary, Kathy, I love you!”

Mike

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Something Personal

Two Quick Items Today

Tomorrow I will post something very special to me.  I don’t want to give it away right now, so you’ll have to wait until tomorrow morning.

But even though it will be a personal post, I’ll still share something very practical for you.  Feel free to leave a comment about it too if you like.  And that brings me to my second point.

Are You Shy?

I am beginning to think that the readers of this blog are some of the shyest people on earth.  I’m not trying to be critical; I just want you to feel free to express yourself.  And I’m not saying this because I am looking for compliments; I appreciate them, but that’s not at all the purpose of the ccomment section.

So feel free to express your own opinion whenever you want to, and feel free to comment on what others have to say too.

Have a super weekend, and be sure to stop by tomorrow.

Mike

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How Much Time Do You Have?

Antique pocket watch - closeup on very old pocket watchI have been busier than I ever have before in my entire life!  And last night I was thinking about time.  How much time do I have in a day?  Then, I thought about some phrases.

Time flies when you’re having fun.  Time waits for no one. The time is right. The time is now.  No time like the present.  Take time to smell the roses. Time will tell.

There are lots and lots of phrases that contain the word, “time.”  When you think about those phrases, it really is just a matter of time. Time doesn’t move faster or slower; time is constant.  There are days when we get more done during the day than other days.  But time is still time.

Time Doesn’t Wait

Have you ever heard the expression, “Time waits for no one?”  It’s true.

I was complaining once about not having “enough time,” and someone told me something I’ve never forgotten.  They said that each day everyone gets a 24 hour suitcase; some just know how to pack better than others.

During the course of a day or a week there are unexpected things that come up.  At times, for one reason or another, there are things that end up taking longer than we anticipated.

What can We Do?

Live your life to the best of your ability at the present moment; at this very moment in time.  That’s all we really can do is to do our best, right now.  Maybe tomorrow or the next day our “best” will be better than the day before.  But for today, at this time, I am just going to try and do my best.

hourglassI hope in reading this that for you it was some time well spent.  But for now, for this post, my time is up.

Mike

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Why Blame Him?

I’ve been “brewing” on something for a couple of days, so I thought I would get it off my chest this morning before I head to work.

Last week a lady was telling me that at her Church the preacher has been telling the people that the reason the economy is so bad is that God is testing people.  God brings these hardships so that people will turn to Him and trust Him and love Him.

Would any parent consider raising their children like that?  No.  The Bible talks about God as being our Father.  What kind of Father brings hurt, harm and disaster on his children so that they will love him more?

Sometimes I get sick and tired of people blaming God for the foolish choices that people have made.  Why do some preachers keep pushing people down, instead of lifting them up.

So I guess that since God is doing all of these things to “test” us, we should just accept it.  Endure.  Suffer.  That’s the life God wants you to live.  The more you suffer the more you prove your love to Him.

Baloney!

The God of the Bible is a God of love and deliverance.  He is the God Who makes a way when there seems to be no way.  He is the God of endless supply and endless possibilities.  He is the God Who loves us.

Why not look to Him and expect the help and resources that you need?  The promises you read in the Bible have no recession disclaimers attached to them.  What God has promised He is still able and willing to perform when men and women choose to believe Him.

Put your hope and expectation in the God of all creation, whose love for you, the Bible says, nothing can separate you from.  Put your confidence in the God of unlimited power and resources.  Put your trust in the God who has promised to bless you and supply all your need.

Shame on the preachers who blame God for everything and refuse to give people hope.  Read your Bible and believe it or get out of the pulpit.

Mike

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Was Rahab A Prostitute?

[The Bible is an “Eastern” book. It was written many years ago in the “East” which today we refer to as “The Middle East.”  As such, there are many customs and idioms that are not familiar to the “Western” mind.]

Most people are adamant that Rahab, in the story of Joshua and Jericho, was a prostitute.   Scholars point out that the Hebrew word used in the Old Testament, as well as the Greek word used in the New Testament clearly indicate that fact.

The meaning of words is very important, but one also needs to consider figures of speech and the culture in which the Bible was written.  For example, Jesus Christ referred to Herod as a “fox.”  While Herod may have had many attributes of a fox, he was still a man.  Understanding the figure of speech, we can understand what Jesus was talking about when he called Herod a “fox.”

Rahab_of_JerichoWhen it comes to Rahab, we really need to take a step back and consider the culture.  First, we need to understand women in the times of the Bible.  They covered their faces with veils.  They did not talk to any men except their husbands and relatives.  For them to be unveiled or to talk to strangers was a deviation from the standard.

Next, we need to understand “inns” in Bible times. They were located either on the roadside or at the gate of a city, which was the case in the story of Rahab.  These inns were publicly funded and there was no charge for the travelers.

It was not common for a woman to be an innkeeper.  The job would first be offered to men. If there were no men willing to take the job, it was then offered to women.  Any woman taking the job would of course not be veiled.  This would be breaking her culture.

She would then be serving the public, meaning that she would talk to strangers.  She would be unveiled talking to strange men. She had made the choice to get rid of her veil and serve anybody and everybody.

Her Occupation Did Not Make Her A Prostitute

Prostitutes in that culture were not allowed to live in the city.  They, along with swineherds, lepers, and alcohol shops were kept a good distance from the city, in some cases as far as 3 miles away.

The Bible tells us that Rahab lived on the town wall, at the gate of the city.  This is of course where the inn would have been.  We also learn from the Scriptures that Rahab’s family lived with her, which was typical for innkeepers.

Because of this very unique situation that was so contrary to their culture, the word, “harlot” became a title for women who were innkeepers.  She was serving the public, talking to strangers.  She was unveiled talking to strange men. She had made the choice to get rid of her veil and serve anybody and everybody.  She was an innkeeper, not a prostitute.

There are those who do not like to say that Rahab was a prostitute because they feel that would make her a filthy sinner, and God would never employ her help.  Others like the idea that she was a prostitute because it shows that God loves everyone.

All arguments and opinions aside, we must always take into account the culture in which the Bible was written.  Regardless of what anyone, including myself, thinks, Rahab is listed in Hebrews 11, right there with some of the great believers of all time.

Joshua 2:1- 21
And Joshua the son of Nun sent out of Shittim two men to spy secretly, saying, Go view the land, even Jericho. And they went, and came into an harlot’s house, named Rahab, and lodged there.

And it was told the king of Jericho, saying, Behold, there came men in hither to night of the children of Israel to search out the country.

And the king of Jericho sent unto Rahab, saying, Bring forth the men that are come to thee, which are entered into thine house: for they be come to search out all the country.

And the woman took the two men, and hid them, and said thus, There came men unto me, but I wist not whence they were:

And it came to pass about the time of shutting of the gate, when it was dark, that the men went out: whither the men went I wot not: pursue after them quickly; for ye shall overtake them.

But she had brought them up to the roof of the house, and hid them with the stalks of flax, which she had laid in order upon the roof.

And the men pursued after them the way to Jordan unto the fords: and as soon as they which pursued after them were gone out, they shut the gate.

And before they were laid down, she came up unto them upon the roof;

And she said unto the men, I know that the LORD hath given you the land, and that your terror is fallen upon us, and that all the inhabitants of the land faint because of you.

For we have heard how the LORD dried up the water of the Red sea for you, when ye came out of Egypt; and what ye did unto the two kings of the Amorites, that were on the other side Jordan, Sihon and Og, whom ye utterly destroyed.

And as soon as we had heard these things, our hearts did melt, neither did there remain any more courage in any man, because of you: for the LORD your God, he is God in heaven above, and in earth beneath.

Now therefore, I pray you, swear unto me by the LORD, since I have showed you kindness, that ye will also show kindness unto my father’s house, and give me a true token:

And that ye will save alive my father, and my mother, and my brethren, and my sisters, and all that they have, and deliver our lives from death.

And the men answered her, Our life for yours, if ye utter not this our business. And it shall be, when the LORD hath given us the land, that we will deal kindly and truly with thee.

Then she let them down by a cord through the window: for her house was upon the town wall, and she dwelt upon the wall.

And she said unto them, Get you to the mountain, lest the pursuers meet you; and hide yourselves there three days, until the pursuers be returned: and afterward may ye go your way.

And the men said unto her, We will be blameless of this thine oath which thou hast made us swear.

Behold, when we come into the land, thou shalt bind this line of scarlet thread in the window which thou didst let us down by: and thou shalt bring thy father, and thy mother, and thy brethren, and all thy father’s household, home unto thee.

And it shall be, that whosoever shall go out of the doors of thy house into the street, his blood shall be upon his head, and we will be guiltless: and whosoever shall be with thee in the house, his blood shall be on our head, if any hand be upon him.

And if thou utter this our business, then we will be quit of thine oath which thou hast made us to swear.

And she said, According unto your words, so be it. And she sent them away, and they departed: and she bound the scarlet line in the window.

Joshua 6:21-23
And they utterly destroyed all that was in the city, both man and woman, young and old, and ox, and sheep, and ass, with the edge of the sword.

But Joshua had said unto the two men that had spied out the country, Go into the harlot’s house, and bring out thence the woman, and all that she hath, as ye sware unto her.

And the young men that were spies went in, and brought out Rahab, and her father, and her mother, and her brethren, and all that she had; and they brought out all her kindred, and left them without the camp of Israel.

Hebrews 11:31
By faith [believing] the harlot Rahab perished not with them that believed not, when she had received the spies with peace.

Mike Verdicchio

Resources
There are a number of books that you can read to get insight on customs, manners, idioms and meanings from the Eastern culture in which the Bible was written.  The best I know of were written by Bishop K. C. Pillai I have had the pleasure of listening to many recorded teaching by him.

He wrote three books, and they are hard to find, and are usually over priced.  But, if you want to you can check this link to see what Amazon has to offer. Light Through an Eastern Window

Another great resource that I have used for years is a book called, “Manners and Customs of the Bible,” by James Freeman. Mine was printed in 1972 and I know they have newer additions. For the newest edition, just click the link and it will take you to Amazon. The New Manners and Customs of the Bible (Pure Gold Classics)

Get paid To Work Out?

Once again, I’m about to head out to the office for another day of bookkeeping. And I just thought of something a dear friend told me a couple of weeks ago.

Isaac was talking to me about a conversation he had with his daughter.  They were talking about her working. You know, getting a job.  Sometimes for young people, getting their first or second job is a challenge for a number of reasons.

But Isaac told me that he related to her how there was a time when he was working construction and the work was extremely physical.  He was so tired at the end of the day.  But, he did something with his mind concerning his job.

muscleHe simply told himself that they were paying him to exercise!  Isn’t that funny?  Isn’t that kind of cool, though?  He said that he was in great shape because of all the physical work that he was doing, and that these people were paying him to work out every day.

I just thought about that as I was getting ready to go to my job.  Do you know something?  They are paying me to add and subtract numbers.  Imagine that.  I get paid for adding and subtracting.  Well then, bring on the numbers!

What are they paying you to do today?

Mike

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What’s In Your Fortune Cookie?

I’m about to head out to the office for another day of bookkeeping.  I wanted to post something before I leave.

fortune cookieThe next edition of The Pep Letter comes out tomorrow and the title of the article is, Fortune Cookies And Psychics.  Now that’s an interesting title, isn’t it.

“You will be presented with a great opportunity: don’t pass it up.”  Have you ever read something like that in the little message in a fortune cookie?  I have.  Do you follow the advice and predictions in those?  I don’t.

In the article, I relate how a young lady was disappointed because she didn’t get to ask a psychic a question about her future.  I believe I helped her out a lot more than the prognosticator could have.

The Names Don’t Really Matter

Whether its fortune tellers, crystal balls, tarot cards, palm readers, psychics, horoscopes, or whatever they are being called, the Bible does have something very clear and specific to say about all of this.

The real question is are we going to believe what God says in the Bible about it, or, are we smarter than God?  Gee, do I have to be so blunt about it?  Yes.

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Enjoy the day, and get your help and direction from God.

Mike

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He Had No Hope But Became A Hero

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Plenty of people have just plain given up.  They have no hope.  They are just trying to survive.  Have you ever felt like giving up?  I have.

In the Bible, a man named Gideon was like that.  He had given up and had no hope.  But he became a hero.

In this short podcast (7:42) I share a little bit about Gideon acquiring hope in our God, and then inspiring others to have hope too, and how he finally believed God and became a hero.

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Sunday Morning Sneak Preview – 4/25

It has been a very productive weekend so far.  I spent lots of time yesterday studying and writing, and preparing some things for the blog.
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This morning at our Glendale Fellowship I am going to a little follow up to last weeks teaching on “Hope.”  I am going to share about free will and how it relates to having hope in our God.

Free will to choose is one of the greatest things God has given to every person.  God takes it very seriously.  He will not overstep your free will.  He may try to warn you, but He will never violate your free will to choose.

Remember Gideon?

When the angel first talked to Gideon, he had no hope.  Instead, he was like people who have lost hope; they have no expectations and thus they really don’t exercise their free will to move forward.  They feel stuck where they are and they just can’t seem to move forward.

If we lose hope, then we slowly give up our free will – something that God sees as so very important in our lives.  God would have us to move forward, living our lives, enjoying our lives, making choices and decisions the best that we can, and then looking to Him, with expectations and hope of greater days ahead.

We need to do whatever it takes to rekindle hope in our God, to have expectation in our God.  We ought to remind ourselves of Who God is, what He has done in the past, and, what He can still do today and tomorrow.

So now you have a little preview of what I am going to teach in about an hour.

Mike

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