Why Give?

I read the following article on line about a year ago. It seems that they have done some research on this great principle of “giving.”  I thought you might enjoy it.

The Bible counsels misers that it’s better to give than to receive. Science agrees. People who made gifts to others or to charities reported they were happier than folks who didn’t share, according to a report in Friday’s issue of the journal Science.

While previous studies have shown that having more money can increase happiness, the researchers at the University of British Columbia and Harvard University wondered if the way people spent their money made any difference.

Turns out, it does.

Not Surprised

Lead researcher Elizabeth W. Dunn, an assistant professor of psychology at the University of British Columbia, said she wasn’t surprised that doing something for others made people happy.

But she was struck by how big the effect was and that how people spent money was more important than how much money they had.

“This work suggests that even making small alterations in how we spend money on a daily basis can make a difference in happiness,” Dunn said in a telephone interview.

“That doesn’t mean go get a high paying job so you can spend tons of money on others. The message is, given what you have, how can you make little alterations to do something for others,” she said.

And, she added, “there’s nothing special about money,” giving can involve time or special skills to help other people.

No Surprises Here Either

The report didn’t surprise Sue Citro, senior digital membership manager for the Nature Conservancy:

“We do hear from our members and our supporters that the do get a real feeling of satisfaction from knowing their giving is doing good,” she said.

Andrea Koslow, director of advertising at the American Red Cross, said: “The act of helping has its own profound effect.”

“People need a humanitarian outlet … feeling that they make a difference … that’s very motivating,” Koslow said.

The good feeling associated with giving is why workplace charity opportunities can engage employees and lift morale, added Kristine Templin, director of corporate partnerships at the American Red Cross.

The Research

The researchers started by asking a sample of 632 Americans, 55 percent of whom were women, to rate their happiness on a scale of 1 to 5, the higher the number the happier.

Then they asked the participants to report their annual income and estimate how much they spent on paying bills, buying gifts for themselves, buying gifts for others and giving to charity.

The first two were considered personal spending and averaged $1,714-a-month, the second two were termed “prosocial” spending and averaged $146-a-month.

“Personal spending was unrelated to happiness,” said the researchers. “But higher prosocial spending was associated with significantly greater happiness,” they found.

Not content with that, they then studied 16 employees of a company in Boston, asking about their happiness one month before and six to eight weeks after each received a profit-sharing bonus from their employer.

In the second interview they also asked about personal and prosocial spending and once again those who spent more on others were happier.

“The manner in which they spent that bonus was a more important predictor of their happiness than the amount of the bonus itself,” the researchers found.

And In Canada

Finally, 46 Canadian students were asked to rate their happiness and then each was given a random envelope containing money, ranging from $5 to $20. Some were instructed to spend it on themselves, others were told to buy a gift for someone else.

At 5 p.m. that day, they were called together again and asked to rate their happiness.

The amount of money had no impact on happiness, but those assigned to buy something for another person reported greater happiness than those told to get something for themselves, the researchers said.

A separate study published in 2006 in the journal Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences found that the same parts of the brain that produce the good feeling when a person receives a reward also respond when they give to someone else.

Indeed, researchers led by Jordan Grafman at the National Institutes of Health found the reward areas were more active when giving a gift than when receiving one.

It’s an interesting article, don’t you think?

If you’re a fan of the Bible then you know that God set up something very wonderful called, The Law of Giving and Receiving.

II Corinthians 9:6-11:
But this I say, He which sows sparingly shall reap also sparingly; and he which sows bountifully shall reap also bountifully.

Every man according as he purposes in his heart, so let him give; not grudgingly, or of necessity: for God loves a cheerful giver.

And God is able to make all grace abound toward you; that you, always having all sufficiency in all things, may abound to every good work:

As it is written, He has dispersed abroad; he has given to the poor: his righteousness remains for ever.

Luke 6:38:
Give, and it shall be given unto you; good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running over, shall men give into your bosom. For with the same measure that ye mete withal it shall be measured to you again.

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Too Much Stress?

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These days it seems more and more people are trying to deal with more and more stress.  Stress is not healthy, mentally and physically.

Discover in this short podcast (8:50) a great key in reducing the stress in your life.

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Who’s Calling The Shots?

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The expression, “calling the shots,” has been around a long time.  Lots of people use it in different ways.  It basically means making decisions.

This short podcast (6:12) is all about who’s calling the shots for your life.  Are you?  You should be.

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Very Inspiring

I have on occasion made mention of George Muller (Mueller).  I thought you might enjoy reading a couple of incidents.  More than enjoying, I thought they would inspire you.  They certainly inspire me.

So here are two incidents.  I will add nothing at the end; instead I will add this at the beginning:  Our God is still on the throne.

Dr. A. T. Pierson was the guest of George Mueller at his orphanage. He says: “One night when all the household had retired he [Mueller] asked Pierson to join him in prayer. He told him that there was absolutely nothing in the house for next morning’s breakfast.

My friend tried to remonstrate with him and to remind him that all the stores were closed. Mueller knew all that. He had prayed as he always prayed, and he never told anyone of his needs but God. They prayed – at least Mueller did, and Pierson tried to.

They went to bed and slept, and breakfast for two thousand children was there in abundance at the usual breakfast hour. Neither Mueller nor Pierson ever knew how the answer came. The story was told next morning to Simon Short of Bristol, under pledge of secrecy until the benefactor died.

The details of it are thrilling, but all that need be told here is that the Lord called him out of bed in the middle of the night to send breakfast to Mueller’s orphanage, and knowing nothing of the need, or of the two men at prayer, he sent provisions that would feed them a month.

Charles Inglis, the well-known evangelist, relates the following remarkable incident:

“When I first came to America 31 years ago, I crossed the Atlantic with the captain of a steamer who was one of the most devoted men I ever knew; and when we were off the banks of Newfoundland he said to me, “Mr. Inglis, the last time I crossed here, 5 weeks ago, one of the most extraordinary things happened that has completely revolutionalized the whole of my Christian life.

Up to that time I was one of your ordinary Christians. We had a man of God on board, George Mueller, of Bristol. I had been on that bridge for 22 hours and never left it. I was startled by someone tapping me on the shoulder. It was George Mueller.

“‘Captain,’ said he, ‘I have come to tell you that I must be in Quebec on Saturday afternoon.’ This was Wednesday.

“‘It is impossible,’ I said.

“‘Very well, if your ship can’t take me, God will find some other means of locomotion to take me. I have never broken an engagement in 57 years.’

“‘I would willingly help you, but how can I? I am helpless.’

“‘Let us go down to the chart room and pray,’ he said.

“I look at this man and thought to myself, ‘What lunatic asylum could the man have come from? I never heard of such a thing.’

“‘Mr. Mueller,’ I said, ‘do you know how dense this fog is?’

“‘No,’ he replied, ‘my eye is not on the density of the fog, but on the living God, Who controls every circumstance of my life.’

“He went down on his knees, and he prayed one of the most simple prayers. I thought to myself, ‘That would suit a children’s class, where the children were not more than 8 or 9 years of age.’ The burden of his prayer was something like this. “O Lord, if it is consistent with Thy will, please remove this fog in 5 minutes. You know the engagement You made for me in Quebec for Saturday. I believe it is Your will.’

“When he had finished, I was going to pray, but he put his hand on my shoulder and told me not to pray.

“‘First,’ he said, ‘you do not believe God will do it; and, second, I believe He has done it. And there is no need whatever for you to pray about it.’

“I looked at him, and George Mueller said this, ‘Captain, I have known my Lord for 57 years and there has never been a single day that I have failed to gain an audience with the King. Get up, Captain, and open the door, and you will find the fog is gone.’ I got up, and the fog was gone. On Saturday afternoon George Mueller was in Quebec.”

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Should You Do, Or, Should You Be?

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I received such positive response from the latest article in my free newsletter, The Pep Letter, that I decided to do a short podcast about it.  The article is titled, “Are You Doing Or Being?”

Far too many Christians believe that the more they “do” the more God will love them and favor them.  Then of course they are more than eager to tell others to do, do do.

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Wait And See?

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Are you waiting for the right time to do something, or make a change?  Is there really ever going to be a right time when everything is perfectly in place?

This short podcast (4:34) is a pep talk for those who want to do something, but have been waiting and waiting and waiting.

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What The World Really Needs Now

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Do you want to hear what I shared last Saturday at the Mission?

Back in the 60’s, Jackie DeShannon had hit song called, “What the World Needs Now is Love.”  Saturday night I taught at the Phoenix Rescue Mission and told them that what the world really needs now, is hope.

Yes, we all still need love, but people need hope today more than ever before.  There are lots of people who are facing what seems like hopeless situations.  Others are losing hope.

In this podcast(45:55), you will hear what I shared with those 80 homeless men.  Find out what hope in God really is, and why it is so important.  Discover how to get hope in God, or how to rekindle hope in God that is no longer there.

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It Was More Than Just Graduating

We enjoyed some very happy times over the past few days.  Family and friends celebrated a very special young lady’s high school graduation.  Our niece graduated Thursday evening.

On Wednesday evening we enjoyed an informal family supper at my sister’s house.  Then Friday night there was party our house.

I know lots and lots of kids graduate every year.  But this was a special occasion for more reasons than it just being our niece.  It was more than her having an “A” average, or being the editor of the school yearbook.

Why It Was So Special

It was special for all those reasons, of course.  But it was even more special because of God’s great help and deliverance on her life.  She missed months of school in her junior year.  But, determined, and with God’s help, she regained her strength and finished her junior year the day before her senior year began.

So, obviously we are all very proud of her academic accomplishments and achieving this milestone of graduating high school.  But we are all so very thankful and inspired by her determination, perseverance, and her unwavering trust in our loving God.

Congratulations, Leah!  Continue to put your trust in God.

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Dumber Than An Ox?

From the Category, “The Eastern Eye”

[The Bible is an “Eastern” book. It was written many years ago in the “East” which today we refer to as “The Middle East.”  As such, there are many customs and idioms that are not familiar to the “Western” mind.]

There is an expression we use today when referring to someone who is not very smart.  They say that the person is as dumb as an ox.  I don’t know if oxen are really stupid or not.  But there is a place in the Bible where God makes reference to His people saying that they were actually dumber than oxen!

donkeyIn the lands and times of the Bible, in the small villages, early in the morning a young boy would lead the animals out to the fields.  He would go to the different owners of the animals and lead them out to the field to graze.  He would lead the asses from their cribs.   He would lead the cows and oxen from their mangers.

Returning Home

In the evening the young boy, called a “cowboy,” would not bring the animals back to the owners’ crib or manger.  He would simply bring them to the village and let them go.  The cows, asses and oxen would then find their own way to their own master’s crib or manger.

I guess those animals weren’t so dumb after all.  The asses knew where their masters’ crib was and the oxen knew where their masters’ manger was located.  They had the sense to return home.

My People Do Not Know

In the Bible in the book of Isaiah, there is an idiom where God talks about how the ass and ox know where their masters are, but Israel does not know or even consider.  This is certainly far from a compliment.

God is saying, rather bluntly, that His own people have forgotten who their Master is.  They do not even have the sense of an ass or an ox.  Those “dumb” animals knew where their masters were, but God’s own people did not.

Instead of returning to their Master, to God, Israel was putting their trust in other gods.  They had, as the book of Jeremiah states, forsaken God, an unlimited fountain, and built for themselves broken cisterns that can hold no water.

Blistering Reproof

Understanding the culture in the Bible, one can easily see that this verse in Isaiah is a blistering statement of reproof.  God is telling His people that they don’t even have the sense of an ass or an ox.

God is trying to show them very pointedly, using something they are familiar with, that they really ought to remember who God is and how He can provide for them.  If they would remember that, then they wouldn’t need to go chasing after other gods, putting their trust elsewhere, instead of in God.

Our God is a God who provides for His people.  He provides solutions, liberty, peace, joy,donkey-anim healing, abundance, and all that we need.  Those who are complaining and looking for sympathy and pity need to have at least the smarts of an ass and turn to God.

Return To God

Too often people want to have it their own way.  They many times even know what the Word of God says, but they have their own way of doing things; they have their own plan.  They think that they are right and don’t realize that in doing that they are not even as smart as an ox.

But for those who choose to return to God, those who return to the Master, God will indeed provide for them as they put their trust in God.

Isaiah 1:3
The ox knows his owner, and the ass his master’s crib: but Israel does not know, my people do not consider.

Malachi 3:7
Even from the days of your fathers ye are gone away from mine ordinances, and have not kept them.  Return unto me, and I will return unto you, says the LORD of hosts.

Mike Verdicchio

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There are a number of books that you can read to get insight on customs, manners, idioms and meanings from the Eastern culture in which the Bible was written.  The best I know of were written by Bishop K. C. Pillai I have had the pleasure of listening to many recorded teaching by him.

He wrote three books, and they are hard to find, and are usually over priced.  But, if you want to you can check this link to see what Amazon has to offer. Light Through an Eastern Window

Another great resource that I have used for years is a book called, “Manners and Customs of the Bible,” by James Freeman. Mine was printed in 1972 and I know they have newer additions. For the newest edition, just click the link and it will take you to Amazon. The New Manners and Customs of the Bible (Pure Gold Classics)

Are You Hanging In There?

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I am hearing this response a lot more these days: “I’m hanging in there.”  Lots of people are going through some difficult times, especially in light of the current economy.

In this short podcast (7:54 ) find out why statements like, “just hanging in there, are so defeating and what you can do about it.  You will discover some very simple keys on getting to the point of believing God and seeing His promises come into your life.

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